Maggies wisdom

Morning Jim.

As I am an early person in the mornings, some times switching on the computer as early as 3am I look forward to your emails regarding all family news and family courts and all the information of the Justice system, lets say so called Justice. Jim you do a very good job via the emails for all the guys out there, no matter where they are in the world at least they can know what is happening, and they are not alone.
What I would like to tell you and maybe the guys is that working a phone line for years and talking to women, god knows how many thousands over the year’s one of the constant moans of a women, was, and still is

My husband is always working, comes home late, falls asleep in front of the TV, cannot be bothered to have sex, maybe he has another women, he can’t be bothered with me or the kids, we don’t go out much, he never tells me he loves me, or how nice I look, and he’s become lazy, I have to decorate the house, do the garden and so on.

My answer
Most men are under such pressure to work and pay the bills, if the rent was not paid, then the whole family can be made homeless, and of course after a days work, he is tired, having been under pressure at work to make sure he does not lose his job, he also has the worry of feeding the family, school fees, uniforms gas/electric bills to pay and so on, so of course the poor man is tired from the worry. I found many women do not recognise these facts, and neither does the family courts.
I think it should be made more aware, world wide, that the men have the main responsibility to keep the family together just by going to work, and bringing in the money to pay bills.
If women become the bread winners, after all they are always stating they want equal rights, then they would stop their arguments, and understand that to get up every morning rush out of the house, in the car in the rush hour, or by public transport is worse, and do the same journey home in the evening, and to do this day in day out, all year, it can be very tiresome, and for many men when they get home, they want peace in the camp.

Family Courts.
When a man is seeking rights to see his kids, the courts must acknowledge that
The man went to work paid all bills, and by doing so, kept the family together, and was a responsible person.
If a dad is deigned any rights to his kids, then it is the courts that are now breaking up the family, and it must become the responsibility of the courts or State to maintain what is left of the family. DO not make orders for fathers to pay for some thing that has been taken away. If the courts take on a liability and sit in judgement which the courts do, then they must pay for their judgments. We cannot pay for electricity or gas bills or any other bills, if we don’t have them. So a responsibility can be taken away from a dad by a court giving no rights.

MAGGIE TUTTLE